However as sure as the sun comes up and goes down it is a fact of life. The loss of someone will illicit the process of grieving with every waking hour as well as the possiblity of intruding on upon ones dream felt hours. Good and bad.
I found both articles enlightening and they helped me to see both sides of the fence.

Coping with Grief & Loss
http://m.helpguide.org/articles/grief-loss/grief-loss
Supporting a Grieving Person: Helping Others Through Grief and Loss
http://m.helpguide.org/articles/grief-l ... ss-support
Love
To you all
Debbie